Comments on: Step children always “ill”, please help!? http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm Your Best Source For Dust Mite Control Wed, 07 Dec 2011 00:07:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Cuteminimwha http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1353 Cuteminimwha Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:24:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm#comment-1353 First off, You dont have the write To talk about somone elses kids on here There not urs? Nor do you really have any say in the matter, Look, I dont think his kid's have mental problems And it rude to say it I think there confussed,Wouldn't you be Your mum and dad split, You marrie there father Have kids with him The get guggled around constanlly? It's not that there mental,its because there conffused? I seriouslly belive there sick, Unless they put there hand down there trout im guessing there really ill,Maybie the food there father cooks? Im not saying his doing it on puporse? But maybie they dont ussally like that type of food, And the reason they dont get sick at there mums is because she dosn't feed them that particulary food item I dunno somthing to look into, Or maybie,there mothers smoking is the cause, I dont know, But about you saying you think they have a mental problem You dont know Your not an docter? So i think the BEST thing to do, Is get them to see a conseler about there feelings, Make it a fun thing Reward them after Get there real mother to encourage aswell,So they think there doing the right thing, About there illness,I think there not faking it..How could they? And i doubt there bevaiour will encourage a new born maybie to act like them Its nobodys fault just talk with your husband and the kids! And btw,There his kids,You dont deserve to be doing all the WORK! Goodluck Im sorry i i sounded harse,My parents are divorced aswell, So i know the feeling! First off,
You dont have the write
To talk about somone elses kids on here
There not urs?
Nor do you really have any say in the matter,

Look,
I dont think his kid’s have mental problems
And it rude to say it
I think there confussed,Wouldn’t you be
Your mum and dad split,
You marrie there father
Have kids with him
The get guggled around constanlly?

It’s not that there mental,its because there conffused?

I seriouslly belive there sick,
Unless they put there hand down there trout im guessing there really ill,Maybie the food there father cooks?
Im not saying his doing it on puporse?
But maybie they dont ussally like that type of food,
And the reason they dont get sick at there mums is because she dosn’t feed them that particulary food item
I dunno somthing to look into,
Or maybie,there mothers smoking is the cause,

I dont know,
But about you saying you think they have a mental problem
You dont know
Your not an docter?
So i think the BEST thing to do,
Is get them to see a conseler about there feelings,
Make it a fun thing
Reward them after
Get there real mother to encourage aswell,So they think there doing the right thing,

About there illness,I think there not faking it..How could they?

And i doubt there bevaiour will encourage a new born maybie to act like them

Its nobodys fault just talk with your husband and the kids!

And btw,There his kids,You dont deserve to be doing all the WORK!

Goodluck
Im sorry i i sounded harse,My parents are divorced aswell,
So i know the feeling!

]]> By: Kathryn L http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1354 Kathryn L Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:24:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm#comment-1354 sounds like nerves. please take them to see a counselor on a regular basis as it seems they are not adjusting well to these changes sounds like nerves. please take them to see a counselor on a regular basis as it seems they are not adjusting well to these changes

]]> By: The Bride http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1355 The Bride Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:24:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm#comment-1355 It sounds like a mental issue and they really need to be in counseling. It sounds like a mental issue and they really need to be in counseling.

]]> By: FoxForceFiveVega http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1356 FoxForceFiveVega Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:24:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm#comment-1356 Hmm...definitely doesn't sound like Allergies. Allergies don't make you puke and have the runs. My son has severe allergies and is on a weekly shot...this has never happened to him. Sounds like maybe it's something mental, like nervous, or emotional. These children should DEFINITELY be evaluated by a professional. There is something going on. This is most definitely not normal behavior. Some of it is, but when you add it all together, no way is this normal. Not wanting to sing at church, but wanting to hunt eggs...that's just being a kid. Not wanting to eat what was served may just be "being a kid" too. The puking and runs all the time sounds like a nervous thing to me, but why would they be? Or a stress thing. If their mom does drink and smoke around them, they shouldn't be there. Plain and simple. If she nor your husband care enough to spend time with them or take them to the doctor, these kids have no hope except for YOU. You are definitely in the right for being concerned and caring for these kids. Even if they aren't yours. You sound like a wonderful mother and should be commended for trying to do your best for these kids. You must talk with your husband and stress how serious this is. These kids need to be evaluated. Who's gonna look out for them if their own parents won't? Stress that to your husband. He has got to wake up here and show a little concern for his children. I wish you luck. Just try and be loving and understanding with these kids and show them extra attention when they are around. If no one will step up and take this matter seriously, you take them to the doctor. Persuade their mom to let you do it somehow. You seem like their only advocate. Cutemini: You are obviously young and don't have children. You don't know what you are talking about. She does have a right to seek advice for these kids! You need to go back to school and learn how to spell first of all and then get some life experience. You do sound harsh and very young and undereducated. Hmm…definitely doesn’t sound like Allergies. Allergies don’t make you puke and have the runs. My son has severe allergies and is on a weekly shot…this has never happened to him. Sounds like maybe it’s something mental, like nervous, or emotional. These children should DEFINITELY be evaluated by a professional. There is something going on. This is most definitely not normal behavior. Some of it is, but when you add it all together, no way is this normal. Not wanting to sing at church, but wanting to hunt eggs…that’s just being a kid. Not wanting to eat what was served may just be "being a kid" too. The puking and runs all the time sounds like a nervous thing to me, but why would they be? Or a stress thing. If their mom does drink and smoke around them, they shouldn’t be there. Plain and simple. If she nor your husband care enough to spend time with them or take them to the doctor, these kids have no hope except for YOU. You are definitely in the right for being concerned and caring for these kids. Even if they aren’t yours. You sound like a wonderful mother and should be commended for trying to do your best for these kids. You must talk with your husband and stress how serious this is. These kids need to be evaluated. Who’s gonna look out for them if their own parents won’t? Stress that to your husband. He has got to wake up here and show a little concern for his children. I wish you luck. Just try and be loving and understanding with these kids and show them extra attention when they are around. If no one will step up and take this matter seriously, you take them to the doctor. Persuade their mom to let you do it somehow. You seem like their only advocate.

Cutemini: You are obviously young and don’t have children. You don’t know what you are talking about. She does have a right to seek advice for these kids! You need to go back to school and learn how to spell first of all and then get some life experience. You do sound harsh and very young and undereducated.

]]> By: caraohara http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1357 caraohara Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:24:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/step-children-always-ill-please-help.htm#comment-1357 You are right in having these children seen to...it appears there is some sort of emotional problem or else they have learnt to get attention they have to be sick... Their father needs to play a much bigger role in their young lives, in fact this could be the key to this whole issue , also what is going on in the mothers home , that might also be a contributing factor to their behaviour. You're a good step mother to be so concerned about your step children. You are right in having these children seen to…it appears there is some sort of emotional problem or else they have learnt to get attention they have to be sick… Their father needs to play a much bigger role in their young lives, in fact this could be the key to this whole issue , also what is going on in the mothers home , that might also be a contributing factor to their behaviour. You’re a good step mother to be so concerned about your step children.

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