I went to an allergist and it was determined that I have a few severe allergies, one of which is to dust mites.

My husband does not realize how much it affects me. He has called me a dictator when I have a special request that he and my 3 other kids take their shoes off at the door. This is a major cause of concern for me-I know about what kinds of things can be brought in on your shoes. Most importantly, I think it is important to be vigilant about keeping clean (I am allergic to trees….lucky me :( ).

Off the subject: my husband also never washes his hands after going to the bathroom. My kids have brought this up to me and I am eeked out by it. He is a schoolteacher, and yes, the school teaches proper handwashing to the1st graders, I believe. Apparently, he is exempt from these rules!!!!

Anyone out there have these allergies and they are driving you insane, along with this kind of behavior from those around you? It is as though my allergies do not exist (they did a RAST testing, so it’s very accurate)!!
How do I educate, without lecturing, my husband on how to help?

He just laid a comforter that has been laying on the couch, which has previously been shared with dogs, on our king size bed. I had just gotten done putting new sheets and pillowcases on it!

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