Comments on: Husband’s children always “sick” at our house, help!? http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm Your Best Source For Dust Mite Control Wed, 07 Dec 2011 00:07:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: cocoa http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1425 cocoa Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:58:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm#comment-1425 I agree with the doctor about these children. They have emotional distress as well as the unstable enviroment at their home. Their mother isn't setting a good example of being a supportive parent. When alcohol is involved the children are not listened too, nor are their needs met. So when they come to your house they don't know how to act as normal children. Your place is opposite to what their used to living in. I think the sooner their put into counselling, the better! As we all know children need a stable place to live in, and they must feel safe. There obviously not getting this at home. The father, your husband needs to "Step Up To The Plate" and take responsibility for his own children. If I takes sitting down with each at separate times for an hr. and listen to them speak on whats going on in their life everyday then he needs to do this! When his two children know he's concerned on their everyday living they may open up and express their feelings. Tell your husband that this is crutial that he reaches them emoitionally while their still young. You don't want problem teenagers lashing out for the wrong reasons. Children only want to be "Loved" and cared for. "Save The Children" If worse comes to worse, down the road, the children may have to be removed from their mentally abusive home with their mother. Tell your husband" turning a blind eye" too this problem will only get a lot worse in time. This attitude doesn't help your family life either. It can be fixed!! Cocoa I agree with the doctor about these children. They have emotional distress as well as the unstable enviroment at their home. Their mother isn’t setting a good example of being a supportive parent. When alcohol is involved the children are not listened too, nor are their needs met. So when they come to your house they don’t know how to act as normal children. Your place is opposite to what their used to living in. I think the sooner their put into counselling, the better! As we all know children need a stable place to live in, and they must feel safe. There obviously not getting this at home. The father, your husband needs to "Step Up To The Plate" and take responsibility for his own children. If I takes sitting down with each at separate times for an hr. and listen to them speak on whats going on in their life everyday then he needs to do this! When his two children know he’s concerned on their everyday living they may open up and express their feelings. Tell your husband that this is crutial that he reaches them emoitionally while their still young. You don’t want problem teenagers lashing out for the wrong reasons. Children only want to be "Loved" and cared for. "Save The Children" If worse comes to worse, down the road, the children may have to be removed from their mentally abusive home with their mother. Tell your husband" turning a blind eye" too this problem will only get a lot worse in time. This attitude doesn’t help your family life either. It can be fixed!! Cocoa

]]> By: big b b http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1426 big b b Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:58:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm#comment-1426 Yes I believe they are jealous that a new baby is on the way, children under 10 still needs the hugging, kissing, story time from their parents. So if the baby is born, at least give all 3 children the same love, its hard to not to give 100% love to the baby, but just try. Yes I believe they are jealous that a new baby is on the way, children under 10 still needs the hugging, kissing, story time from their parents.
So if the baby is born, at least give all 3 children the same love, its hard to not to give 100% love to the baby, but just try.

]]> By: alyssa http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1427 alyssa Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:58:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm#comment-1427 i'm so sorry for your situation!! your husband needs to be there for them. you've done way more than other step-parents would do, i think that's amazing. i would say that maybe they don't want to go back to their mother, but i don't know. maybe talk to them when their father is out? and yeah...counseling should help good luck!!! i’m so sorry for your situation!!
your husband needs to be there for them. you’ve done way more than other step-parents would do, i think that’s amazing.
i would say that maybe they don’t want to go back to their mother, but i don’t know. maybe talk to them when their father is out?
and yeah…counseling should help
good luck!!!

]]> By: redhorns12 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1428 redhorns12 Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:58:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm#comment-1428 Maybe its the AURA of your house. I dont think there's any problem with the kids or their psychological health. Most probably your house have negative aura. Or probably your children wanting attention from your husband. Ill get back to you as soon as i get more info about your case. Maybe its the AURA of your house. I dont think there’s any problem with the kids or their psychological health. Most probably your house have negative aura.
Or probably your children wanting attention from your husband.

Ill get back to you as soon as i get more info about your case.

]]> By: going with the flow http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1429 going with the flow Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:58:13 +0000 http://dustmitemattresscovers.com/husbands-children-always-sick-at-our-house-help.htm#comment-1429 I think that they are doing this for attention, and as long as they get away with it, they will keep doing it. my husband's daughter still does it with her headaches, so her dad takes her to where she wants to be at - when she doesn't want to participate in family functions, but she doesn't seem to have a headache when he takes her back to our hotel room, and she makes all kinds of phone calls, orders herself room service and movies and music and everything else. It's simple manipulations. Tell them that if they are sick, you are taking them to the hopsital, see if they are still going to be sick! good luck! I think that they are doing this for attention, and as long as they get away with it, they will keep doing it. my husband’s daughter still does it with her headaches, so her dad takes her to where she wants to be at – when she doesn’t want to participate in family functions, but she doesn’t seem to have a headache when he takes her back to our hotel room, and she makes all kinds of phone calls, orders herself room service and movies and music and everything else. It’s simple manipulations. Tell them that if they are sick, you are taking them to the hopsital, see if they are still going to be sick! good luck!

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