31 Jul
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I was at a friends place the other day and she started questioning my parenting, by stating various things that she thought i was doing wrong. eg- stating that i put my son to bed to early, that the bodywash i am planning to by for my son is crap (he has allergies to some products). Anything i said about myself she made into a negative, and was very opinionated and judgemental. I told her that she was opinionated, and that not everyone has to agree with her opinion. She then quietened down a bit, but it was very tense. How do you deal with people like this. I am considering not seeing her anymore as i always end up feeling bad after i leave, then start questioning things i could be doing wrong. Before i see her i am confident but i end up quite upset afterwards. The thing is she is not always like this. What should i do?
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Nancy M
July 31st, 2009 at 3:41 am
1When you have a friend like that you don’t always want to be around them that much. Your friend needs to keep her opinions to herself and if it happens again then let her know that she needs to live your life for you since she must have a perfect life. It is sometimes easier to keep your mouth shut but you still have the right to tell the person that you don’t always like what they are saying. You have every right to stand up for youself.
G S
July 31st, 2009 at 3:41 am
2Drop her you deserve better friends then that
lost and looking
July 31st, 2009 at 3:41 am
3ask her if there’s anything on her mind right now. if she’s not always like this she might just be stressed.
point out to her that you appreciate her point of view, but ultimately it is your decision how to raise your kids. remind her how you refrain from putting her down.
if this doesn’t stop, i would suggest you do not continue seeing her. real friends don’t make you feel bad about yourself like this.
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